The next day, as I was about to write this review, it occurred to me to wonder if there was any way to be a great mother without totally immersing oneself in the role? Is there a version in which you don't have to put your life in danger or make drastic sacrifices for your child?

These very sacrifices are often used to characterise a great mother. This ideal is embodied by my own mother. But is that what we expect from all mothers?

I can't completely live up to that standard for myself, therefore that scares me a little.

But Jess is that amazing mother.

Anyway, just thought I should kick it off with that thought.

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I absolutely loved this story! There's something truly special about finding a community that sees you, supports you, and feels like family. For me, that family is my mom, my younger sister, and me. It’s my greatest joy, and I wouldn't trade it for anything.

Regarding Marty’s struggles, I understand his hardships, but the choices he made distanced him from his children. His decisions didn't prioritize his family, and as a result, he became separated from them.

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Ed's role in boosting Nicky’s confidence was significant. He didn’t impose but allowed him to lead, showing him that she was valued just as she was. That’s the essence of true community. And this propelled Nicky’s strength as a person and a member of the family, particularly.

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One review described this story as a love story, and it truly is, but it’s also about family love, friendship, and community. This is what resonates with me in many of the books I read—perhaps because it reflects the essence of life itself.

Without community, what remains? I cherish my family deeply. Growing up with cousins who felt like siblings, and celebrating holidays at my grandmother’s house, are memories I hold dear. Even though things have changed, I would cross oceans to reunite with them for laughter, tears, and shared moments. Those gatherings provided a sense of home and belonging, where we could simply be ourselves.

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The coincidence of Ed helping Jess and her family felt fated. It’s like when you’ve been around someone but don’t truly see them until both are ready. My own experience mirrors this; my partner and I were at the same university but didn’t meet until years later in another province.

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Jess and Ed’s romance was anticipated, and Moyes built the tension beautifully, leading to Jess’s personal liberation. It was wonderful to see her embrace her own identity and share her true self with Ed.

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Ultimately, this is a story about family—a mother’s unconditional love and the strength of community. It’s what makes this not just a love story, but a celebration of the connections that define us.